How to find out if someone is gay

It can be tricky to tell if someone is gay without asking them directly, but sometimes their behavior can give you clues. For example, they might say things that suggest that they’re attracted to people of the same gender, like, “Wow, he’s got great abs!” or “She looks so hot in that dress.”. 1 Bezzy communities provide meaningful connections with others living with chronic conditions. Join Bezzy on the web or mobile app. 2 Here are some of the findings that speak to how we can decipher an individual’s sexual orientation: 1. Do His Pupils Dilate When He Looks at You? First of all, look for the bedroom eyes. A Cornell University study reports that the pupils of our eyes dilate when viewing sexual imagery that we find exciting. 3 Identities are deeply personal, and many people will define theirs using language that looks different to ours. They may use different terms to describe themselves over time. 4 If you're trying to figure out if your friend is gay because you want to date him (as a woman), it's important to remember that just because he might be interested in men doesn't mean he's not interested in women. 5 These articles are about special topics related to OCD and related disorders. For more general information, please visit our "About OCD" section. 6 Lots of guys are gay. But how do you know if you're one of them? We spoke to some experts to help you understand your sexuality a little better. 7 Frame it as an insurmountable achievement of yours. After all, it is much more prestigious than being awarded a Rhodes Scholarship. 8 The best way to dispel the myth that you can easily tell if someone’s gay is by understanding the difference between sexual orientation, gender identity, and expression or SOGIE. 9 . 10 . 12